It is nearing summer and the weather is getting hot. Recently, Bao Ma consulted in a private letter: the baby born in the summer, the old man at home always advised me to keep the baby's sole warm and wear socks. Do you really need this?
This question reminds me of the time when I just gave birth to my child. My family Xiaobao was born in the summer, and it is already the time to open the air conditioner.
At the time of the first birth, the family had no experience, and gave Xiaobao a lot of baggage. The back immediately picked up the red rash. When the nurse came over, he blamed us: the child could not pack so much, it was too hot, and he should be given heat.
Because the "problem" was thrown out on the first day, we later paid special attention to whether to wear more and more for Xiaobao, and dress the children according to the dressing standards of adults. Because it was born in the summer, I did not wear socks for Xiaobao from the first day of birth.
Xiaobao is full moon, and finally can hold the child out and turn around.
Going to relatives, Xiao Bao’s grandmother, grandmother, and my seven grand aunts, all around to persuade me: Why don’t you wear a sock for your child? Seeing my silence, they said: Don’t listen to the old man’s words, and lose money in front of you!
Finally, "escape" from the parent-child elders circle, go to the community or the park to turn around, hey, the "grandmothers" who pass the road are equally enthusiastic: this child for a few months? Just full moon? That is to wear socks for children, don't look at the summer, this child's feet are most afraid of cold. I even promised: Yes, go back and wear it.
Recalling the experience of that time, I still feel a little dumbfounding. It is undeniable that these "coming people" have a very good heart, but it is really difficult for a new generation of mothers to suffer.